Every BDSM book I've read with a Domme has made me say "fuck that shit". I don't read novels with dommes anymore because no one ever does it right. Either she's a wanna-be Domme who is faking it because she was hurt by some man in her past or she's a legit Domme that comes in contact with super Dom and he changes her. Smh...
Ugh, this would drive me up the wall to read. I think the only femdom romance I've really enjoyed is Joey Hill's Natural Law. It's not without its problems (the whole suspense plot could be tossed right out the window, if you ask me) but it features a dominant woman who stays dominant, and who gets right angry when she realizes the sub hero's been essentially leading his doms around by the nose.
Yeah, I liked Natural Law, too, except the suspense plot (but I usually tune out mystery subplots; if I wanted to read a mystery, I'd read a mystery!).