Thanks, but how am I now supposed to sleep tonight? O.O

Thank you! :)

Thank you, and: phew, thanks for making me see it that way! This might really help to fend off some of the nightmares. :)

Thanks! :)
Yes, you're right. I will plant some flowers around them in spring, maybe some forget-me-nots.

Forget-me-nots would be way cool.

Forget-me-nots would be perfect!! Rosemary would be good too, if it'll grow: "There’s rosemary, that’s for remembrance". :)

Rosemary needs good drainage (folklore claims grows best for stronger women) and sun. Candytuft, periwinkle, four o'clocks and moss roses are less picky, spread out like forget me nots and will seed themselves back each year (plus candytuft is a particular favorite of ladybugs ...). I mention because sounds like if against a wall that maybe there's a shade issue or damp soil from drainage. Jackamani and other clematis like shaded roots then climbing a wall to find sun...so do the trumpet vines beloved of hummingbirds but those can get invasive.

Not to be morbid, but I'd like a bit of non-wormy life like hummingbirds and ladybugs about my grave.

Thanks for the advice, MbD and Debbie! :)
We're still in the process of re-planning the garden - there's so much to do - and I'll definetely take them into account, especially since there really are some shady parts which are facing north.

I really wish we had hummingbirds here!

Ja, das ist es! Aber auch irgendwie toll: Wer hat schon Grabsteine in seinem Garten... :D

Thank you! And it is a true story as well. :)

And how about if I comment on a comment, is there a notification?

I got only one of them, Martini.

Thanks for your reply! I didn't know about that. But I think they would have announced it when they made a change to the ways we receive notifications. They're usually quite communicative on stuf like that.

Umm... wasn't there just a comment by RedTHaws?

Hmm...I saw that one from Red, too. Then it disappeared.

One thing's for sure, you Halloween-y post sure got spooky.

Yep. This is it. I've got a haunted post. Nice. O.O
Now I'm going to make myself a hot chocolate. With lots of rum. And I'm only going to come back here in the bright light of day.

I'm totally supporting the hot choc/rum part.

Want one, too? :)

It turned out I had forgotten that I had used it all on this year's rum pot, so now it's hot choc with sherry.
I made one for you, too. You can find it on one of the gravestones. ;)
Good night!

Oh, yes please! :)

Thanks for replying, Susanna!
Okay, so you only got one notification?
Let's do it again, I will post a comment, then wait a while and make a reply - to make sure which one you got.
And I'm curious to see if you'll receive one for this comment...

I got one for this reply to a comment.

Thank you! Even for the one I posted below? Because Susanna received nothing.

Yup. Seems I'm getting all of them. I did have a problem a few days ago when there seemed to be quite a delay in getting notifications but in the end they appeared.

Weird and weirder...
Anyway, I'm going to notify BL about this in the bugs topic tomorrow. There's definetely something wrong.

I got a notification for BrokenTune's post, but not yours!

That is strange!

Okay, so I think there is a bug that notifies people when I reply to a comment on one of my own reviews, but not when I just comment.
Thanks a lot for yor help, Susanna and BT! :)
Now I wonder if others are having the same issue without noticing it...