wow, I don't think I will like this one, Horse sounds like anything and everything I dislike and that saying a lot considering how much I LOVE horses ;)
Ownership, I think that's another think I REALLY don't understand, I think I'm too independent at heart to even try and understand it. I don't understand why someone would want such a deep connection, I rather be with myself, partnership is cool, I'd love to find someone to share my life with, but I mainly want it to add to my life, I don't want my life to change, I don't want to change myself and I don't expect the other person to make THAT a big difference in my life. I think that when I was younger I wanted a consuming love. Someone I could sort of get lost in / with. But I grew up and since I'm used to me, just me (and the dogs) it's totally an alien concept that someone would have ruler ship over me (or anyone for that matter). I'm the most undisciplined person I know anyhow :P just ask my personal trainer. I laughed at him today. he told me to do something I didn't want to do so (run faster) I told him - stop saying that, I won't do it. then I said, you know what, keep saying that, it won't make a difference :D