The ultimate relationship repair from the bestselling author of Boys Will Put You on a Pedestal (So They Can Look Up Your Skirt) and a psychologist with decades of experienceEvery committed relationship goes through rough patches.  What’s the difference between those that move forward and those that disintegrate?  Knowledge, effort and a desire to strengthen the bond. In Actually, It Is Your Parents’ Fault, Philip Van Munching and Bernie Katz cut through unhelpful self-help trends to lead readers to self-knowledge and to show how:--Even your earliest childhood experiences dictate who you fall for--The unconscious aspects of your personality both attract and repel your partners (often at the same time) --Your history indicates how you’ll fight, how well (or poorly) you’ll communicate, and how you’ll deal with tough times--To use insight into yourself to fix your relationshipWith humor and sound advice, Van Munching and Katz can help any reader on the road to a happier romance or marriage.“A useful tool.”—Library Journal .