Many people don’t realize it, but a person can become devastatingly emotionally damaged after suffering from bullying and victimization from one or more narcissistic abusers. Women who are prone to be with abusive, narcissistic men often had abusive or emotionally absent fathers. These women are attracted to the alpha male. They are vibrant, alive, motivated, nurturing and loving. They are the prime target for the hungry needs-starved narcissist. Many of these women suffer significantly when they try to extract themselves from this violent and emotionally volatile relationship. They know that they stand to lose everything that they have by walking away from the relationship. Most women who get out have lost their home, their money, their children, their jobs and their income. They are left by the side of the road, bruised and battered. They are left wondering what the Hell just hit them, and why did they deserve something so wretched in their lives. Why the narcissist demeans, devalues and destroysThe narcissist is one of the most temperamental and difficult personalities on the earth. He thinks that the whole world is out to get him. He often has anxiety and paranoia issues that make him compulsively check and lock everything because he is afraid that someone else will try taking what is rightly his. He has been denied in his childhood, thus he refuses to be denied any longer. He feels that he is entitled to get what’s owed to him, and he will spend the rest of his life collecting what is his. The narcissist is defensive toward everyone. He might buddy up to your good graces in order to feign interest in whatever it is that you are doing, but he will use this information against you later. The narcissist is always on the defense. He is always on the prowl to blame shift and prove that someone else is responsible for the things that he is doing wrong. He doesn’t fit into the world, thus he doesn’t believe that the laws and rules of the world apply to him.The narcissist will enforce the rules, however. He will even go so far as to getting into the military, the police force or an attorney’s office just to have the inside track on money, power, and prestige. He might join these ranks in order to protect himself from prosecution for things that he is doing wrong. After all, he is part of the good ol’ boys club, and they protect and serve on another. This status serves two roles, it keeps people from victimizing him and allows him to status bomb other people to show how important he is. What a good ego boost for the vain but fragile narcissist.The narcissist has learned early that the world is both harsh and dangerous. He was reminded of this time and again when he failed over and over in school, when he was punished by his parents for every little slight, and when he was rejected over and over for jobs and promotions. The narcissist’s trauma-effected parents are anxious and riddled with paranoia. They think that they can only trust their own close-knit family. There is no room for outsiders. If you have stepped into the line of fire by a narcissist, you know all too well how difficult it is to extract yourself. You might have succeeded in the No Contact, and you have lived through the subsequent hoovers that were initiated by the controlling narcissist. He believes that he owns you, and how dare you have a mind of your own. How dare you not appreciate a narcissist such that he is. How dare you walk away from him!This ebook examines what happens after the partner of a narcissist goes No Contact with the narcissist. We cover how the narcissist goes into a frenzy trying to get his narcissistic supply back in his life, and then how the narcissist’s efforts die down as he switches to a new victim in his efforts to control and direct his own fantasy world. Download now to read more!