You found the perfect person, but then they turn into that same old bad relationship, over and over again. How can you end this cycle of bad relationships?

Breaking the cycle is simpler and easier than you might think. What I am about to share with you is a simple process to change the kind of person you will attract and be attracted to. Almost every couple I know who are happily married followed this process. I did not invent or learn this relationship strategy but lived it after struggling for years with bad relationships. Today I enjoy the benefits of a long term relationship, and so can you.


How to break the bad relationship cycle

Like watching the news we are captivated by problems and conflict and like watching our favourite weekly TV shows we seek resolution to those problems. It is that dramatic tension and need for resolution that keeps viewers coming back every week.

Unfortunately when we have an unresolved conflict in our own lives we too keep coming back to the conflict again and again seeking resolution. The difference with our lives and TV is that we can’t resolve the old conflict in a half hour with a new person no matter how much they resemble the old problem; and until we resolve the conflict we are going to be drawn to it time and again. The very healthy need for resolution causes us to repeat bad relationships over and over again.

You don’t need to go into therapy to stop the cycle of bad relationships. In fact breaking the cycle is simpler and easier than you might think. You don’t need to figure out and talk through the old hurts to break out of the bad relationship cycle. Just follow the simple steps that I and countless others have done to find the right kind of person, one that loves and accepts you for who you are naturally. Be in a happy long term relationship without the dating game or spending time and money fixing yourself.

What I am about to share with you is a process to change the kind of person you will attract and be attracted to, thus breaking the bad relationship cycle. Almost every couple I know who are happily married followed this process and so did I.

I did not come up with this relationship strategy or even learn about it but I lived it. I dated more or less the same kind of people with similar relationship issues over and over again. I was getting very frustrated and couldn’t understand why my relationships started out great but failed in the end, and usually for the same old reasons.

I attracted the same kind of person while dating but after resolving to do this simple thing I ended up marrying someone completely different, and the best kind of person for me. My wife is not only someone I love but also someone I like. Saying that I like her sounds strange but after 10 years and two kids, I still miss her while at work and like to be around her. And sometimes I even get the warm fuzzys, which as you probably already know, only last 2-4 years into a relationship.

The simplest, fastest and easiest way to find the right person is to…