I'm sure growing up in my grandmother's house, taking care of my developmentally disabled mother, forged who I am, but I don't believe any one thing defines me. My philosophy of life is that we are all in this together--and we need to embrace one another with as much grace, humor and compassion as we can muster. I see life as big, bigger, biggest, and I want to take everyone along with me on the journey. I not only attend black-tie affairs and work on charity board projects, but I am also just as likely to be taking a grandchild to lunch and a movie. I'm happily married to John, with whom I eloped when I was an 18-year-old freshman in college. It was quite the scandal. We have four beautiful children and 12 grandchildren.I won my first writing award in the seventh grade in a statewide essay contest about a television broadcast of Hans Brinker and the Silver Skates. Instead of Silver Skates, they sent real skates, which I enjoyed immensely. I'm only sorry I don't still have them so they could hang in my office.While moving 22 times across the country and rearing our children, I sold stories to Fate Magazine, Home Life Magazine and True Confessions. In 1988, I sold my first novel and a week later received a two-book contract from Fawcett. Sixteen novels later, I've seen The Other Amanda win the Wisconsin Romance Writers of America Write Touch Readers' Award and Talk of the Town chosen by Cosmopolitan magazine as its "Red Hot Read" for February 2009.