I'm Wendy Ulrich, a practicing psychologist and founder of Sixteen Stones Center for Growth, LLC, a group of mental health professionals committed to building the emotional and spiritual resilience of LDS women and their loved ones (see sixteenstones.net). I received my Ph.D. from the University...
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I'm Wendy Ulrich, a practicing psychologist and founder of Sixteen Stones Center for Growth, LLC, a group of mental health professionals committed to building the emotional and spiritual resilience of LDS women and their loved ones (see sixteenstones.net). I received my Ph.D. from the University of Michigan and an MBA from UCLA, then for many years I was part of a private practice in Ann Arbor, where my husband Dave and I raised our three children. Because he is a professor at the University of Michigan, we had the flexibility to trade off school, work, and childcare when our children were young, giving me the rare privilege of giving birth to our third child in the middle of finals week at the end of my first year as a doctoral graduate student (not recommended). My latest book, "Habits of Happiness," is based on a popular talk I've given to thousands of women as a part of the Time out For Women series from Deseret Book. I hope you'll enjoy reading and sharing a few counter-intuitive tips for putting a little more light in your life.The Temple Experience: Passage to Healing and Holiness," has been in the works for over two decades. Seeing the LDS temple as a place of healing and self-discovery has been an important insight, and an important personal process for me. It is less a book about understanding the temple and more a book about understanding ourselves, but I hope readers will also gain a deeper appreciation of the power and majesty of these sacred rites. My first two books, "Forgiving Ourselves: Getting Back Up When We Let Ourselves Down," and "Weakness is Not Sin: The Liberating Distinction that Awakens our Strengths," come out of long experience with the impact of self-blame in people's lives. While sometimes self-blame is definitely warranted, many of us tend to cling to it far beyond the point of being constructive or truthful. While there are a lot of books on forgiving others, when I started writing "Forgiving Ourselves" (Deseret Book, 2008) I could not find a single book on this important topic. Later, Dave and I decided to collaborate a book called "The Why of Work: How Great Leaders Build Abundant Organizations that Win" (McGraw Hill, 2010). Mind you, the last time we collaborated on a major project I ended up sick to my stomach for several months, gained 40 pounds, endured a demanding labor, and gave birth to a 13-pound child. Needless to say, I was a little leary about this new collaborative venture. Indeed, working with Dave on "The Why of Work" has yielded many of the same outcomes as our last collaboration, including nausea and weight gain! But our new brainchild has also been a very meaningful joint project. The Why of Work pushed me to consider what gives meaning to my life and my work. At the top of that list are relationships with our children, grandchildren, and dear friends. A close second would be communicating ideas that have impact on people's resilience and well-being through speaking, training, and writing. On a more personal note, I love powertools and woodworking projects. I hope some of the things I write about can be powertools for others in finding meaning, self-acceptance, and a deeper sense of purpose in life.
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