Break ups are optional.

How's that for a doozy of a statement?

It may seem almost outlandish to say that you don't have to break up with a guy if you don't want to do so, but it is often the truth.

Break ups are optional.

If you want your man back in your life, you can make that happen. That's what this book is all about. It's going to explain the nuts and bolts of getting your ex-boyfriend back at your side. It's going to explain both why it's possible and how you can get the job done.
Proof that break ups aren't inevitable
Things might seem a little bleak right now. It might be hard to believe that you can get your guy back in your life again, considering your current circumstances. That's understandable.

But if we're going to get you on the road to getting him back in your arms, that mindset isn't going to help. So, let's take an objective look at some readily available evidence that break ups are optional, not inevitable.

I want you to think of a handful of strong relationships that you know of personally. Consider them in some detail. Ask yourself if any of those couples went through tough times while they were dating or married.

I'm willing to bet dollars to donuts that almost all of them went through something approximating a break up at one time or another. I know that's true in my experience and it's been true of most everyone else I've asked to perform that same experiment.

In fact, almost every relationship goes through a few rocky patches at some point. Even the strongest, most loving and stable relationships have had their ugly and tough moments.
Amol