A complete guide to understanding the process of selecting a partner. It begins with defining love and the elements that contribute to the loss of love. You will find questionaires that will help you understand your patterns of chosing and weaknesses that may have contributed to mistakes in your past relationships. The author identifies the more important criteria to evaluate in a candidate and gives clear and easy suggestions on how to go about discovering who they really are and if they are the person you are looking for as a partner. This is a very practicle guide for both men and women, those starting to date and those who have suffered from past relationships. It is light and easy reading and brings back enthusiasm to one of the most frustrating process in relationships, selecting the "right one".