Loose Girl: A Memoir of Promiscuity
For everyone who was that girl. For everyone who knew that girl. For everyone who wondered who that girl was.Kerry Cohen is eleven years old when she recognizes the power of her body in the leer of a grown man. Her parents are recently divorced and it doesn't take long before their lassitude and... show more
For everyone who was that girl. For everyone who knew that girl. For everyone who wondered who that girl was.Kerry Cohen is eleven years old when she recognizes the power of her body in the leer of a grown man. Her parents are recently divorced and it doesn't take long before their lassitude and Kerry's desire to stand out--to be memorable in some way--combine to lead her down a path she knows she shouldn't take. Kerry wanted attention. She wanted love. But not really understanding what love was, not really knowing how to get it, she reached for sex instead.Loose Girl is Kerry Cohen's captivating memoir about her descent into promiscuity and how she gradually found her way toward real intimacy. The story of addiction--not just to sex, but to male attention--Loose Girl is also the story of a young girl who came to believe that boys and men could give her life meaning. It didn't matter who he was. It was their movement that mattered, their being together. And for a while, that was enough.From the early rush of exploration to the day she learned to quiet the desperation and allow herself to love and be loved, Kerry's story is never less than riveting. In rich and immediate detail, Loose Girl re-creates what it feels like to be in that desperate moment, when a girl tries to control a boy by handing over her body, when the touch of that boy seems to offer proof of something, but ultimately delivers little more than emptiness.Kerry Cohen's journey from that hopeless place to her current confident and fulfilled existence is a cautionary tale and a revelation for girls young and old. The unforgettable memoir of one young woman who desperately wanted to matter, Loose Girl will speak to countless others with its compassion, understanding, and love.
Publish date: June 3rd 2008
Pages no: 224
Edition language: English
I'm really astounded at how judgmental people get about memoirs. Someone puts their most vulnerable moments on display for all the world to see, and then readers gang up about what an [insert derogatory word here] person the author is?There were definitely times while reading "Loose Girl" that I wan...
I loved the story, but I felt like Kerry could have gone into more depth. Overall, I thought it was a great story about a woman wanting to be loved.
I ended up liking this book more than I thought I would. I felt the character grew as the book/time went on-as it should. At first I felt annoyed because it was a younger me that could have related better to this book but then towards the end I connected with it as well.
A quick and upsetting memoir about a teenage girl who tries to fill the void of feeling unloved by having sex with lots and lots of boys/men. It should be read by every parent and every teenage girl. Reading it in a group would lead to excellent conversations, a chance to strip away the labels, the ...