Protecting the Gift: Keeping Children and Teenagers Safe (and Parents Sane)
Safety skills for children outside the home Warning signs of sexual abuse How to screen baby-sitters and choose schools Strategies for keeping teenagers safe from violenceAll parents face the same challenges when it comes to their children's safety: whom to trust, whom to distrust, what to...
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Safety skills for children outside the home Warning signs of sexual abuse How to screen baby-sitters and choose schools Strategies for keeping teenagers safe from violenceAll parents face the same challenges when it comes to their children's safety: whom to trust, whom to distrust, what to believe, what to doubt, what to fear, and what not to fear. In this empowering book, Gavin de Becker, the nation's leading expert on predicting violent behavior and author of the monumental bestseller The Gift of Fear, offers practical new steps to enhance children's safety at every age level, giving you the tools you need to allow your kids freedom without losing sleep yourself. With daring and compassion, he shatters the widely held myths about danger and safety and helps parents find some certainty about life's highest-stakes questions: How can I know a baby-sitter won't turn out to be someone who harms my child? (see page 103) What should I ask child-care professionals when I interview them? (see page 137) What's the best way to prepare my child for walking to school alone? (see page 91) How can my child be safer at school? (see page 175) How can I spot sexual predators? (see page 148) What should I do if my child is lost in public? (see page 86) How can I teach my child about risk without causing too much fear? (see page 98) What must my teenage daughter know in order to be safe? (see page 191) What must my teenage son know in order to be safe? (see page 218) And finally, in the face of all these questions, how can I reduce the worrying? (see page 56)
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Format: paperback
ISBN:
9780440509004 (0440509009)
Publish date: May 9th 2000
Publisher: Dell
Pages no: 352
Edition language: English
I read this book in one evening and found it valuable and empowering. I got to skip over all the chapters that had to do with school and daycares, since we're learning at home, but the rest was certainly applicable. While many of the stories he uses as examples were heartbreaking (I totally could no...
Every time I put this book down because I get to anxious reading about all the bad scenarios a child can get into, I pick up another piece of valuable information.
Real risk assessment and real skills for protecting children. I'm not a big fan of self-help in general, and I'm really extremely scornful of the prtect-yourself advice usually given to women, which amounts to: don't go anywhere or do anything and if you get raped it's all your fault. There's no ...
I first saw Gavin de Becker on Oprah right around the time my son was born. I bought this book and never regretted it. He explains a lot of facts about how children and teenagers can be at risk and taken advantage of. The book describes in detail the most common mistakes parents make that put the...