Stop looking at one another with the same thought in your respective heads, “How did I get here?” A lot of times we, as couples, find ourselves in situations filled with doubt, confusion and anger but don’t know how we arrived. The Slow Self-Inflicted Deterioration of a Good Man is the first edition of a series of books designed to help men, and women, find their voice within their relationships. In the book we travel on a concise exploration with the hopes of finding the crossroads where the bond between two people transitioned into the bondage between two people. If you are looking for professional guidance… If you are looking for elderly wisdom… If you are looking for in-depth analysis and the answers to all of your questions; I encourage you to continue your search. You will not find that here. In this book you will find the kind of real conversation about the role I was playing in my relationship that I wish someone would have provided me. There was a point along my journey that I didn’t recognize the person looking back at me in the mirror. Writing this book helped me. I don’t know your situation but it is my ambition that reading this book initiates the restoration of the recognition of your reflection.