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review 2016-12-21 04:46
Peter Rock: My Abandonment
My Abandonment - Peter Rock

I thoroughly enjoyed this book. I especially liked the tone of the narrator, Caroline. She is straightforward and guileless, which seemed appropriate for someone who has been raised alongside but separate from society, and who has been taught to mistrust everyone who is not her father. I can't imagine how hard it must have been to strike this note, and I was constantly impressed. Recommended.

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review 2016-09-04 00:00
The Days of Abandonment
The Days of Abandonment - Elena Ferrante,Ann Goldstein The Days of abandonment opens with Mario walking out on Olga his wife Olga, and their 15 year marriage and their two children.
The narrator of the story is Olga and the story is her account of the abandonment.

I listened to this on audio and the narrator was Hillary Huber and she was excellent.
This is a short read set in the family apartment and we experience the meltdown of the narrator after her husband's abandonment.

The writing is shockingly honest and unnervingly blunt and I can see why readers of Ferrante love her books.

I didn't identify with the characters of Mario and Olga or their lives and while I enjoyed the first half of the novel I became tired of the ranting and raving by the second half.
Having said that being married for over 20 years I haven't thankfully experienced what Olga experienced and I will be the first to admit here that I have no idea how rational I would be if I was dealt these cards so therefore I don't want to be judgemental on a topic that I know women out there are experiencing as I write this. I actually don't even want to think too deeply about how I would react as I consider myself a calm and rational person but faced with an experience like The Days of Abandonment after many years of marriage how would I react?

I like a sense of time and place in a novel and I enjoy character development and background and I just didn't get it from The Days of Abandonment and this is why this ended up being a two star read for me.

This is my second book by Elena Ferrante and this is where we will part company and while I appreciate writing, her books just don't float my boat.

I actually think this would make a very interesting book club discussion read and I would love to have read this as part of a group as I feel I would have got so much more from it.
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review 2016-01-29 19:57
The Lost Mother
The Lost Mother - Mary McGarry Morris

This is the heartbreaking account told by 13 year old Thomas during the Depression era.  He lives in Vermont in a tent in the woods with his dad and his younger sister Margaret after his mother leaves to "seek a better job elsewhere." 

 

A perfect example of how children interpret the mysteries of adults.  With what little information his dad has told him as to why his mother left his innocence paints a different story than the truth and he is determined to find his mother, either to bring her home or to go live with her.  Life for Thomas and his sister have not been easy while in their father's care who seems to be on a streak of bad luck.  When they are informed their dad had to leave for temporary out-of-town job they are passed from house to house.  At first they are happy at each place once they are warm and fed but each household reveals their skeleton and ultimately making it impossible for the children to stay.

 

Mary McGarry Morris does a superb job in depicting Thomas's emotional, frustrating and painful experience as he finds his way to the truth.  Definitely my favorite to date that I've read by this author.  I would recommend this book for those who appreciate thoughtful reading.

 

How I acquired this book:  Barnes & Noble clearance shelf

Shelf Life:  Approximately 3 years.

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review 2016-01-26 12:34
Book giveaway contest and review of powerful memoir
A Family Apart - Sleuthing the Mysteries of Abandonment, Adoption and DNA - Craig A. Steffen

Enter here for a chance to win a copy of this powerful memoir of a man searching for the details of his abandonment by his biological family. Just post a comment below and a winner will be randomly picked on Monday, February 1, 2016.  US residents only, please, as requested by the publicist.  Good luck!

 

This is a compelling and down-to-earth story of a man who had been abandoned, along with his older sister and brother, by his family at the tender age of 2 years and his search for the truth of his beginnings.  His mother stole the family car and disappeared.  His overwhelmed father took the three children to an orphanage.  The author and his sister were adopted by the Steffens, but his brother was left behind.

 

The author’s telling of his journey of discovery is a fascinating one.  You’ll read about his life as a child growing up in his adopted home with his strict, unemotional parents.  His solving of his mother’s mysterious disappearance reads like a true crime novel.  And his search and use of DNA testing to find his biological father is nothing short of a miracle.  The author has given us a unique look at what living with a family other than your own is like and all the little – and big – things missing from that life that others take for granted.

 

I was given a copy of this book by the publicist in return for an honest review.

 

Author’s website: www.craigasteffen.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/craigasteffenauthor/timeline

Twitter: https://twitter.com/CraigSteffen

Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/9874023.Craig_A_Steffen

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Amazon: http://www.amazon.com/Family-Apart-Sleuthing-Mysteries-Abandonment/dp/099636420X/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1450567949&sr=8-2&keywords=a+family+apart

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review 2015-07-10 10:26
Boys of the Fatherless - David C. Riggins

Book – Boys of the Fatherless
Author – David Riggins
Star rating - ★★★★★
Plot – good, life story more than novel
Characters – realistic to the point of hitting a sore spot

Movie Potential – ★★★★★ – probably something like Stand By Me
Ease of reading – very easy to read
Cover - ✔ Perfect
Suitable Title - ✔
Would I read it again - Yes

 

** I WAS GIVEN THIS BOOK, BY THE AUTHOR, IN RETURN FOR AN HONEST REVIEW **

 

First off, let me just say that I'm really grateful to David for contacting me, regarding this book. I saw that it was part of the Goodreads First Reads a long time ago and thought it looked interesting, so I entered to win it and added it to my TBR list. I didn't win, but David contacted me this week, because it was a TBR of mine, and asked if I'd like to review it. I jumped at the chance.

Having been warned this was newly edited and rewritten, I started reading it with high expectations. I wasn't disappointed. Although I didn't read the original version, I can see that this is a really clean edition, with very few mistakes, if any.

 

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“If losing my father was my darkest hour then finding Sarah was my light.”

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BLURB

 

Abandoned by his father, Danny Roberts struggles to find his way through the confusion of adolescence and developing sexuality. Danny finds comfort in the words of Darius, the man that becomes his mentor and discovers true love in the green eyes of Sarah but not every story has a happy ending and the citizens of Fatherless may have to wait a generation for their freedom.

 

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PLOT

 

I'll admit, I read this in one sitting, though I'd only intended to read the 1st chapter. I was supposed to be working, but thought I'd take a break to start the book and see how it went. I didn't put it down until halfway through, when my eyes needed a break. Then, suitably rested, I was right back at it until the last page.

David warned me that this was considered a one-sitting read, but I wasn't convinced, because I'm generally a slow reader. I like to soak in the story, let it percolate and settle. I didn't have a choice with this one; I was fascinated by the storytelling and Danny's story.

I love that this is a Dystopian novel, with an alternative world and gives a sense of adventure, without getting too crazy with the visuals or world-building. Everything is nicely dropped into the story when it's important, rather than thrown at you, right at the beginning.

The plot reminded me a lot of The Belief in Angels, which I reviewed last year. It's told in the same 1st person, contemporary way, with that nostalgic storytelling that I'm really learning to love. These are the only two books I've read that do this style of writing any justice. It feels connected, yet allows for enough distance to remind me that we're looking into the past and waiting for the final revelation to return to the events of the present, briefly mentioned at the beginning of the book. And when we return to that present, we're vaguely aware of the mounting knowledge that this book will not have a happy ending, in the traditional sense.

Yet, I found myself smiling at the end, while crying. There was a happy ending, in part; a happiness that doesn't come from a Happily Ever After or even a Happily For Now, but the kind that comes with knowing that the story went where it was supposed to go. This was how it was always meant to be.

 

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CHARACTERS

 

I love Danny. He's a normal kid, with a normal, messed up life and normal, weird friends. I love everything about him and his life. I love that he's strong, without being mean or brutal; that he's sensitive, without being a cry-baby. I love that he suffered, but he's come through it like a trooper and tried to make the most of his life.

Truthfully, I feel sorry for Danny, for what happened when he was little, but he's learned to harden himself against the dangers and violence of this new world, without letting it steal his soul. I really feel his pain and the sorrow of losing his dad, while still detecting a hint of hope that one day he might come back.

I love his building relationship with Darius, that he's sceptical at first, not sure what's really going on and that there are hints of the truth in places, without giving away the secret. I love that Danny has solid friends in Sam and Jessie, for a while, and that they all love and support each other, though they're all misfits in some way.

I can't tell you much about Danny's story, because I honestly can't think of what to say, after finishing it just a moment ago. There's nothing I can say about his tale that wouldn't be giving the story away. So, trust me, go buy it and read it, then you'll know what I mean.

 

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OVERALL

 

Here's my favourite quote of the entire book :
“I was still skeptical of his intentions but something inside me was missing. There is a bond that a boy shared with his father that when broken, whether by death or abandonment, cannot be healed. All the little things like learning to shave and how to tie a tie, learning to be a man and everything that implies are missed and although these things seem trivial, collectively they make a man.”

 

Reviewing this book is really difficult for me, because it's not your normal novel. It's not even your normal story. It's tough, heartbreaking and it hits you where it hurts, without you even knowing it, until you're crying and wondering which of the last four god-awful events you just read made you start.

And yes, this book made me cry.

The ending was...perfection. There really isn't another word for it.

The entire book is a slow build. It's like a warm blanket, on a freezing cold day. At first, you're not sure if it's doing much good in warming you up, because you're not sure where the story is going and you're coming into it cold, with no knowledge of the background or characters. But then you start to feel the heat and the love for the story gradually building. It begins small, with a desire to just keep turning one more page, to just get to the end of the chapter, before you put it down. Then, before you know it, you're snuggled up in your blanket, warm and toasty, comfortably settled and in love with the story. You had no choice; the minute you put that blanket on, the minute you opened that first page, you were a goner.

When I started writing my review, I'd only gotten halfway through the book and already rated it a 4 star read. Now, having finished, I'm bumping it up to 5. I don't care if there are one or two spelling/grammar issues, which happen in all amazing books. What matters is the story, the heart, and the craft of the book. I can't even say writing, because that's not what this book is. It's a piece of David C. Riggin's heart, put on paper, to share with the world. And I, for one, am grateful.

 

Thank you. I'll be first in line for book 2.

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