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review 2018-10-01 14:51
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Ghosted - Rosie Walsh

I seriously need to find some books to enjoy soon. Between this one and "Lair of Dreams" I pretty much despaired through Saturday. "Ghosted" just doesn't work. It doesn't lean in enough to the mystery or romance portions. At times Walsh seems like she was in the middle of writing a romantic suspense book, but pulled it back. Also, the two characters, Sarah and Eddie are bland and have zero chemistry together. I also had some thoughts about Sarah acting like a loon (there is no other word for it) throughout this book over a guy she had sex with for seven days. If she was younger (in her 20s) I could have just went with it, but she's almost 40 and going away weeping and running cause she lost the love of her life. I maybe screeched get a grip at the 50 percent mark.

 

"Ghosted" starts off with Sarah and Eddie on their last day together. Sarah is worried about seeing Eddie again and vice versa. It's a long road to get there, but it eventually comes out that Sarah lives in California and is only in England visiting family. Eddie, is about to go off on a vacation with friends, so they promise to call each other when he's back in town so they can figure this thing out. My comment was, figure out what? You live an ocean apart, get real. It also dribbles out these two nitwits didn't even talk about their personal lives with each other. Sarah also lies that she's divorced (no separated) and they are both content thinking true love's dream or something.


Fast forward to Sarah not hearing from Eddie and growing increasingly frantic. Two of her best friends are just eh, you had a holiday fling, keep it moving. Sarah though knows that what she and Eddie has was real and proceeds to stalk (yes she does) him through social media, his friend's social media, and even follows one of his friends to a football match hoping Eddie would be there. She's unhinged enough to make me wish that this had ended with Eddie getting a restraining order. I think that what bugs me the most about this, is that if the genders were flipped this would be unacceptable. Point blank, this is unacceptable, I don't care if you are male or female. Getting ghosted sucks, it doesn't give you carte blanche to stalk people. 


To make matters worse, Sarah thinks about going back to Eddie's house to see if he is there, (I can't recall if she does that) but then proceeds to write him letters telling him about her life. I am still trying to see the romance in this book, cause it's not hitting any of my romance receptors at all.

 

The other characters in this book are given short shrift since we are just following Sarah along as she obsesses and cries over Eddie. Her friends problems are not as important as figuring out the mystery of why Eddie ghosted her. And what gets me, is that it is alluded to and then point blank pointed out how bad things are with some of her friends lives. Jo is with a terrible guy. Her friend Jenni has fertility problems. Sarah has an estranged husband with a new girlfriend that you would think she would be more focused on than Eddie. 

 

As other reviewers had pointed out, the whole obsession after 7 days makes zero sense. If these two had been dating for months or years it would have worked better. However, Walsh has to set it up as a short time in order for the twists that follow to work. Frankly, if you are just hell-bent on setting up a twist instead of writing a good book, it just makes me liken you to "Girl on a Train" and will cause me to avoid your books in the future. 


The writing was not good. I think another reviewer pointed out that Walsh overly decribes scenery in every scene and she does. I don't care about grass that much. I don't need to hear all of the colors it can be described, along with the smells, etc. The flow was awful. When the book switches POV things really grinded to a halt. After we switch I was ready for the second twist and was glad that I called it correctly. Too bad, if Walsh had shaken things up, that would have saved the book for me. 

 

The ending was just a meh moment. It doesn't make sense based on what we as readers know. The people going on about this being a great romance made me scratch my head. Sure it's a great romance if we want to pretend that people would have a totally different reaction than what Walsh shows here which is love conquers all. 

 

 

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text 2018-09-30 14:06
Reading progress update: I've read 100%.
Ghosted - Rosie Walsh

What a letdown. Walsh telegraphs most of the twists in this book except for one which was cleverly done. Other than that, she seemed reluctant to push the mystery or romance aspects of the book very hard. Another reviewer said it best, Sarah is ridiculously selflishly absorbed. 

 

You eventually get all of the pieces to Sarah, but honestly I went eh. The biggest issue I had was that when you find out what’s been going on the romance for me died. It made zero sense for it to be this earth shattering thing after all of the secrets came out.

 

The other characters had way more problems and issues I wanted to focus on. Jo’s partner who didn’t work and threatened her about custody of her son. Jenni and her husband failing to get pregnant. I was actually kind of disgusted with how Walsh treated Jenni.

 

I think Walsh made a mistake transitioning to Eddie’s POV half way though. He seriously sounded like a doormat with regards to his mother and he didn’t seem to have a life. I also didn’t get why he loved Sarah. Their chemistry is non-existent. 

 

Too bad Walsh didn’t lean into the romantic suspense side of things like she could have. She dipped her toe in a few times and let things die.

 

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text 2018-09-29 13:32
Reading progress update: I've read 30%.
Ghosted - Rosie Walsh

Good lord I want to tell Sarah to get a grip. She’s all over the place and obsessed with Eddie and why he’s not talking to her. She’s gone to his FB asked people do they know if he’s okay and she now knows he’s fine (she saw him online) and he’s just not responding to her.

 

Walsh shows us the first day they met and it countdowns to their last day together. I honestly am not getting chemistry between these two. They just seem to be having a lot of sex and not discussing their lives.

 

Walsh also dangles pieces of Sarah’s life out to us. Sarah misses her sister Hannah, Sarah left England as a teen after something happened and lived permanently in the US after. Sarah is reluctant to stay for long at her parents home. And in between these revelations we have a letter that it sounds like she’s writing to her sister. Sarah is also not divorced, just separated, but still friends with her husband.  That’s another relationship I’m baffled about. 

 

All in all we’re seeing supposedly a strong businesswoman who runs a huge charity who is losing her grip cause a man isn’t calling her back. Two of her best friends are baffled by her behavior, but they also have some big things happening to them and she’s oblivious to it. Same with her best friend Jenni back home. Everything is about Sarah and why Eddie isn’t calling her back.

 

I thought that this book would have a lot more mystery than it does.But there’s really not, there’s no mystery going on that I can really see besides Eddie’s a jerk and Sarah is naive.  Maybe we’ll get to something later but it’s not there yet. Also the romance portions of the book are not good.

 

I’ve been ghosted twice. The first time I couldn’t believe it since I was going out with the guy for three months. We also had mutual friends so they were ticked at him. I haven’t seen him since. The second time was someone I talked to for several months. Technically he ghosted everyone since he said he needed to be focused on himself and he shut down his FB and other social media. We eventually reconnected last Fall and things were tointoka again for a while, but he disappeared again after his birthday in May. I just decided toniteven try to reach out again. People who ghost unless it’s for safety reasons are assholes. 

 

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review 2018-09-28 22:28
Ghosted
Ghosted - Rosie Walsh
This was an interesting book. I think this is a book where you have to pay attention to the text, and not skim over it. There are little parts that become important later and the characters actions are just as important as the words they speak. I can’t say that there is any specific character that stood out for me in this novel, for a majority of them irritated me. Jenni is the only character, at the end of the novel, that I cared for and I really wondered why she was still hanging on.
 
It’s been years since the accident that took the life of Sarah’s sister. Paying respect to her sister, Sarah again makes a yearly trip to London, only this year she meets Eddie. She never meant to fall in love but Eddie was nothing like Reuben, her first husband. They spent one week together and Eddie was off on holiday. They hated to part but he promised to call Sarah while he was gone. They made a commitment to reconnect once he returns, as they both wanted to move forward with their relationship.
 
When Eddie doesn’t call, Sarah thinks the worse. Sarah can’t think of any logical reason why Eddie hasn’t called her. Enlisting the help of her friends, Sarah tries social media to try to find any information on Eddie.
 
Sarah eventually gets some leads but what she finds is not what she wants to hear. As readers, we travel back in time, through parts of the novel, and experience the beginning of Eddie and Sarah’s relationship, to see how it began. These flashbacks give us a glimpse into their lives and provide a few clues to help us put the story together.
 
I liked Sarah’s relationships in the novel. I liked the variety of people she had to talk to and who were a part of her life. Some of these people were instrumental in her life and some, I thought she should appreciate more. Like I said before, there were quite a few people who bothered me in this novel. People who I thought should get a life or needed to grow up. But, that is what a good novel does, they provoke emotions and this one sure did. Then, there is Eddie. What a character. I’ll let you form your own opinion on him. I didn’t care for the ending. I could have thought of a hundred different endings for this novel beside this one. I just didn’t need another ending like this one. I’m glad we read this novel for book club, as I don’t think I would have read it otherwise. Between 3.5-4 stars.

 

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text 2018-09-28 20:54
Reading progress update: I've read 2%.
Ghosted - Rosie Walsh

So far so good. As someone who has been ghosted twice I am real curious how this is going to play out. 

 

Sarah has met the seemingly perfect Eddie who promises to meet up with her again after she gets back to London. Now that she is back, he is not responding to her texts. We find out that Sarah almost 40 and has recently gone through a divorce. That's all I got so far.

 

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